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2014Jan

Funeral wishes are no more than wishful thinking

Charles
Jan 29
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 ‘You can decide everything in advance if you wish, down to the kind of music you’d like – and there’s no charge for changing or updating your wishes at a later stage.’ Golden Charter ‘…pre-planning your funeral is actually a thoughtful and responsible way to show that you care your family
Categories:  funeral plans, Legal rights

Window dressing

Charles
Jan 28
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An email arrived here recently from a person who has been struck by the way undertakers dress their windows. ‘Dreadful’ is one of the adjectives she used, ‘depressing’ another. She’d like to set up a small business and put them right. Whether or not undertakers’ windows are on the whole
Categories:  funeral directors, Marketing

Famous last words about

Charles
Jan 28
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“When they told me they were going to induct my friend George Harrison into the Hollywood Bowl Hall of Fame posthumously, my first thought was – I bet he won’t show up.” From Eric Idle’s eulogy to George Harrison
Categories:  Humour

No Time

Charles
Jan 27
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No Time In a rush this weekday morning, I tap the horn as I speed past the cemetery where my parents are buried side by side beneath a slab of smooth granite. Then, all day, I think of him rising up to give me that look of knowing disapproval while
Categories:  Poetry

All that we are not

Charles
Jan 24
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Back in the day – it feels like pre-history but it’s only 5 years – there was very little buzz around death (poor metaphor, I know). Now there’s an ear-shattering din. Back then, in a spirit of open-minded curiosity, I’d blog up anything that caught my eye — arty stuff,
Categories:  Uncategorised

Groundhog week

Charles
Jan 23
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22 Jan is reckoned the worst, most depressing day of the year. This week is as bad as it gets. Nodding in agreement? Reasons to be cheerless, according to Dr Cliff Arnall of Cardiff university are: weather, debt, time since Christmas, time since failing new year’s resolutions, low motivational levels and the
Categories:  Legal rights

The stalemate of funeral choice

Charles
Jan 22
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Posted by Richard Rawlinson Cherishing freedom of speech we often quote the line, ‘I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it’. So democrats proselytise in order to influence others, and sometimes those influenced leave one tribe and join another. A far
Categories:  celebrants, funeral directors, funeral music, Personalisation, Religious funerals, Requiem Mass, Secular approaches to death

Philip Treacy remembers Issie Blow

Charles
Jan 21
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Posted by Richard Rawlinson Running until 2 March at London’s Somerset House, Isabella Blow: Fashion Galore! is an exhibition celebrating the extraordinary life and wardrobe of the late patron of fashion and art. To promote the show, one of her many protégés, milliner Philip Treacy, talks here. As the interview progresses,
Categories:  memorialisation

In your prayers

Charles
Jan 20
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Some sharp comment here in Monday’s Times by David Aaronovitch: Death prattle Pieties are by no means always religious. I don’t know when the practice began in this country of appending “our thoughts are with etc” to any tribute to the recently departed, but it has gone too far. No
Categories:  Uncategorised

Down To Earth is looking for a manager

Charles
Jan 20
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    Down to Earth manager Full time, £30,656,  One in five people cannot afford a funeral. QSA seeks a full-time manager to deliver an award-winning project, Down to Earth, which provides independent funeral advice for people on low incomes in east London. The position includes management, planning and delivery,
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