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Thank You For Being My Dad

Charles
Jan 09
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Surprisingly, perhaps, this is not more popular at funerals. Simple and catchy.  A son rarely tells his Father How he really feels, A handshake or a pat on the back 
is all that he reveals, I’d like to right that wrong, Here in this little song. Thank you for shaping
Categories:  funeral music, music

A Giving Tribute For Lasting Memories

Charles
Jan 09
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ED’S NOTE – Right back when A Giving Tribute was nobbut a concept, we loved the idea. Since those early days its creator, Liz Mowatt, has developed, trimmed and simplified her offer. She has persevered with the sort of grit and tenacity you’ve got to take your hat off to.
Categories:  Funeral flowers, memorialisation

Thiel embalming, anyone?

Charles
Jan 09
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Professor Walther Thiel, an Austrian, developed an embalming process for medical cadavers. His process requires much less formaldehyde than conventional embalming fluids and, also, produces a much more ‘lifelike’ body with none of the hardness and stiffness associated with conventional embalming. Medical people are very keen on it — those
Categories:  Embalming

Approaching death

Charles
Jan 09
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“You get nearer to the shore and you can actually, for the first time, not just make out this dim, insubstantial cliff, but you can see the little houses and cars moving.” Jonathan Miller
Categories:  Attitudes to death, dying

Dead bowler takes three for 47

Charles
Jan 08
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From a report by Andy Bull in The Spin: Congratulations to Rangana Herath, the roly-poly Sri Lankan spinner whose 12 wickets at 33 each against Australia have bumped him up to fourth in the ICC’s Test bowling rankings. Herath took three for 47 in the fourth innings last Sunday, an
Categories:  Uncategorised

If music be the food of love, play on

Charles
Jan 08
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Posted by Richard Rawlinson We sometimes differentiate between religious and secular music at funerals, hymns such as Abide with Me or popular hits such as Candle in the Wind. It was ever thus with music’s capacity to move, ranging, even in the Middle Ages, from sacred Gregorian Chant to itinerant troubadours
Categories:  music

The unintended consequence of promoting longevity

Charles
Jan 08
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Michael Wolff describes caring for his eldery, dementing mother in New York magazine. It’s a long piece and it will concentrate your mind. You’ll brood on it.  Warning: once you start, you won’t be able to put it down.  …what I feel most intensely when I sit by my mother’s
Categories:  Assisted dying, Attitudes to death, Attitudes to older people, Death; Good death, End-of-life issues

You say coffin, I say casket

Charles
Jan 07
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By Guy Keleny in the Independent here. “…this column does not wish to sound like a choleric pedant holding forth in about the year 1950, so we do not go on about ‘Americanisms’. “The simple truth is that there is more commerce of words eastward across the Atlantic than westward because American
Categories:  coffins

Adventures in Funeralworld

Charles
Jan 07
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1. The late night shopping experience Posted by Andy Clarke  ED’S NOTE — We have featured Andy’s adventures with his innovative Curve coffin from the very beginning. Here, he describes the experience of exhibiting at a Christmas shopping event organised by his local Chamber of Commerce in Tenterden, Kent.  And
Categories:  coffins

Bad death, bad memory

Charles
Jan 04
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Pain that is not relieved in a person’s life continues after they are gone, held as a sordid memory by loved ones.  Just as we retain treasured thoughts of joy, wisdom and warmth, we preserve images of pain.  Unrequited suffering contaminates memory, preventing healing, healthy grieving and closure. This pain
Categories:  Good death