The price of a good pic
The subject of this photo, taken after the shootings in Newtown, Conn, says: “I sat there in a moment of devastation with my hands in prayer pose asking for peace and healing in the hearts of men. I was having such a strong moment and my heart was open, and I started to cry. “All […]
What we learn
“We quit this life without fanfare or flourish. We die as we live: simply, unadorned, and unknowing with little more true understanding of deeper meanings than that with which we entered this world.” Source
Post-mortem
Source “Blessed be the inventor of photography! I set him above even the inventor of chloroform! It has given more positive pleasure to poor suffering humanity than anything else that has cast up in my time or is like to — this art by which even the poor can possess themselves of tolerable likenesses of […]
Sarco turns up in Northumberland garden
A retired couple in Northumberland have discovered that an unregarded planter in their garden is in fact a Roman sarcophagus dating from the first or second century AD. They stand to make £100,000 by selling it at auction. Full story in the Daily Mail here. FACT: The word ‘sarcophagus’ derives from the ancient Greek word ‘sarkophagos’, […]
The biggest social issue coming down the pipe
From an article in last Sunday’s Sunday Times: You may not be part of Britain’s 6.4m-strong army of carers yet, but if your parents are still alive, the dilemmas surrounding how to look after them as they get older will surely come. Future Identities, a government report published last week, drew attention to what one expert calls the […]
Add the GFG blog to your Facebook torrent
You can have the GFG blog spewed into your Facebook feed if that’s how you’d rather ‘consume’ your deathnews. Type, er… hang on a minute… ah, yes, ‘Good Funeral Guide’ into the searchbox, go to the page, and ‘like’ it. Brings a refreshing chill to the heedless merriment of your ‘friends’. Don’t forget that you […]
A seamless, faultless funeral
Posted by Sara Elliot In case you missed it earlier in the week (it was hiding as a comment) — ED My mother’s funeral should have been a carbon copy of my father’s. We therefore dispensed with the services of a Funeral Director, having effectively already had the Dress Rehearsal, and knowing exactly what was […]
Chocolate cake — a foretaste of Heaven
n the southern states of the US they like to eat big after a funeral — heart-attack food, mostly. No polite little British ham sandwiches and finger food for Texans. It says a lot about the difference in grieving styles between us and them. Here, a Baptist minister proposes that funeral food should be thought […]
It’s your funeral
Posted by Richard Rawlinson In recent decades the emphasis of funerals has gone from forward-looking to backward-looking. The traditional funeral marked the transition from this life to the future life beyond death. Details of the life of the dead person were less significant than the existence of the immortal soul. This eschatological approach has given way […]
Thought for the day
“Sometimes I think grief is love that has been made homeless.” Source